KRIS AQUINO AT JAMES YAP, hiwalay na muna habang inaayos ang kanilang problema!

Monday, January 18, 2010

Kahapon sa The Buzz, hindi humihinga ang lahat ng tao sa studio habang inaabangan ang bawat salitang bibitiwan ni Kris Aquino, tungkol sa pinagdadaanan nilang problema ng asawang si James Yap. At tungkol sa pagpunta niya sa bahay ni Mayen Austria, ang babaeng diumano'y panay ang tawag at text sa basketbolista.


Most probably, marami sa inyo ang nakapanood na ng video ng pinag-uusapang tell-all ni Kris na ito. Pero para sa mga hindi pa... here's the transcription of the interview. Some sentences might be missing, and there are typographical errors pasensya na, pero makukuha niyo na rin lahat ng ipinaabot na message ng Queen of All Media sa kanyang interview.


Boy : krisie, importante sa amin ang panig mo. importante sa amin ang katotohanan. Exactly what happened? We are listening.

Kris : ahm i had to discuss all of this with my family, in depth, before i face all of you, nakiusap ho nang mahinahon ang mga kapatid ko, na mag-ingat ako sa mga pananalita ko and just to stick to the facts. So even before i came here sa dressing room, my sister Pinky said nagsisimba siya uli gnayon para ipagdasal ako. Boy let me start okay, ah marami po syempre yung mga gustong mang-away o manggulo, sinasabi naman ang kitid naman ng utak ni Kris. Nakalimutan na ba niya ang kanyang nakaraan? Simple lang ho ang sasabihin ko sa inyo, kung anuman ang nakaraan ko nung July 10, 2005, pinakasalan ako ni James Yap. For whatever i may have gone through in my life, alam yun ni James Yap. At pinakasalan niya ako at binigay niya ang kanyang pangalan sa akin. Ngayon sa ilalim po ng batas, at siguro na rin sa pagbibigay pahintulot ni James, may karapatan ako bilang asawa niya. Na kung anuman po ang mga pinagdaanan ko dati, past is past and at present i happen to be Mrs. James Yap. That’s the first.

Point number 2, i now speak to all the wives listening. Nagla-lunch kami ng asawa ko, i was on call, may taping ako ng Kung tayo’y magkakalayo, kaya lang po na-delay nang na-delay. So at 2pm, nung umuwi si James from practice, we were having lunch magkatapat, ganyan. So meaning to say po, we still co-habit. We live under one roof. Sinagot ni James ang telepono, again, i will understand James when he told me na alam mo kungmay tinatago ako sayo hindi ko naman siguro sasagutin ang phone in your presence. I heard a girl crying, magkatapat kayo minsan may maaaninag ka talaga dun sa conversation lalo na kung nakikinig ka di ba? Kasi it was quiet, and i could hear a voice very clearly say, “James tell me what’s wrong with me? Ginawa ko naman na ang lahat!” and then ang sinagot po ng asawa ko, “alam mo kung ayaw sayo wag mo nang ipagpilitan ang sarili mo.” and then i heard more crying, until, James could see kasi ganyan eh di ba? Na ang kilay ko po umaabot na sa kisame namin. So, sinabi ni James “alam mo mamaya na lang tayo mag-usap.” So nagtanong po ako, “babe who’s that?” ganun na ang tono ko. Si Mayen. Sabi ko “oh, what does she want with you?” okay. Dati po, umo-order kami ng mga cupcakes at mga cookies sa kanila pero through phone lang yan, i didn’t know how she looked okay. And then i said, “is she crying over you?” sabi ko “waht’s happening?” Tapos ang sinabi ni James sa akin, “no, ang sinabi niya iniwan daw siya gn boyfriend niya for another girl kaya siya iyak nang iyak.” Sabi ko, “friend mo yung guy?”. “Hindi” Sabi ko, “anong pangalan nung lalaki?” Some Cabahug, that was the last name na binanggit. Sabi ko, o kung hindi mo kaibigan bakit ikaw ang iniiyakan? And then sinabi niya hindi ko nga alam eh. And then sabi ko alam mo parang nababastos ako, are you telling me the truth ba talaga na may boyfriend yan na iniiyakan? Baka naman obssesed yan sayo? So i told James, anyway they live two streets away, gusto ko siya puntahan para naman makita niya that i’m a real person. At nababastos ako sa ginagawa niya kasi the whole time na nag-away tayong dalawa bago magpasko, umalis ka dito sa bahay na to and yet wala akong piangsabihan except my closest family. In the nearly 5 years of our marriage, all the times na nagkagulo tayong dalawa, wala akong lalaking iniyakan. Of course im not counting you as lalake, you get it? O you klnow what i’m trying to say o di ba po? So ang sinabi ko sa kanya parang hindi [boy : ang sinasabi po niya kaibigan ay alam ko ang nangyayari sa kanya, and i’m proudly gay] yes. Ang pino-point out ko lang kay James, na sabi ko parang it’s not proper and baka naman she’s under the illusion that i’m not a real person and that i only exist on tv. So gusto ko pumunta dun para maramdaman niya, flesh and blood, tao ako at misis mo ko. So now, naligo na po ako, inaayusan na ako ni Bambbi Fuentes, i am sorry na mandadamay po ako ng ibang tao, pero kamag-anak ko naman sila at humingi ako ng permiso. My cousin Rina who is closest to me, ninang ni both Josh and Baby James called me while Bambbi was doing my make-up. And then ang sinabi sa akin ni Rina, cuz tinawagan ako nitong si Mayen at umiiyak, pupuntahan mo daw siya at aawayin. Tinawagan daw siya ni James at sinabihan na mag-sorry na lang sayo. Sabi ko, cuz tinawagan siya ni James? So i said i think i really better go there and find out for myself,. What’s really going on. So ang sinabi ng pinsan ko, cuz wag ka nang pumunta! Wag mo na silang pag-aksayahan ng panahon! And then i, she said remember there’s so much to lose ikaw yung sikat. And then i told Rina, cuz naman, kung hindi ko kayang ipaglaban ang rights ko as a wife because i’m a public figure, di lahat na lang ng babae mafi-feel pwede nila akong apak-apakan. So i said no i’m going. So of course, ang daming nag-try pigilan ako but i went okay? So i rung their bell, and i want to make it very clear. Binuksan ho ako ng pintuan ng gate nung nanay, mahinahon po at niyaya pa nga ako pumasok sa loob nila because they were entertaining guests. She mentioned ahm the former head of Poveda, she menitoned that there was a bishop there and all. So i said no ma’am, it’s okay i would just like to stay here and i just wanted to let you know that ahm, your duaghter has really been calling my husband and i’m not comfortable about it. Boy i just wanna make it clear, never po akong nagmura, never po akong nanlait ng tao, ipinaramdam ko lang ang aking displeasure. Kasi nga asawa po ako at parang, i dont know what the word is, pero parang naa-awkward ako na may babaeng tawag nang tawag sa asawa ko. I’ll take this oppurtunity now, my sister Viel asked me to please apologize to the mother. Because sinabi ni Viel, it was not the mother that was calling your husband. The mother was gracious enough to meet you outside. So Mrs. Austria, on behalf of my family, hindi naman nga po kayo ang nanggulo sa asawa ko. So humihingi po ako ng tawad sa inyo na pati po kayo nadamay dito. Hindi ko ho kagustuhan na saktan ang damdamin ninyo, ang kagalit ko po yung anak ninyo. Okay, may i go on with the story? [boy : go ahead Krisy]

It was very, very calm boy the whole time. Kaya lang lumabas siya [boy : Mayen came out, okay] yes. The girl came out and said, i don’t know why i have to say i’m sorry to you. James said to say i’m sorry, but i didn’t do anythign wrong. Eto lang po, kung mismong yung asawa ko feeling dapat mag-sorry na tong babaeng to sa akin, siguro nga pati yung asawa ko na-realize na may mali sa sitwasyon. So ang sinabi ko sa kanya, asawa ako ni James. I’m his wife, and in my opinion, what you’re doing is wrong. And i came here very graciously sabi ko, and as politely as i can, to please ask you to stop calling my husband. And then ang sinabi po sa akin, but i didn’t call James that often. Sabi ko, so bakit nung may problema ka na sa boyfriend mo, kung meron talagang boyfriend di ba boy hindi talaga tayo sigurado, eh bakit problema yun ng asawa ko? Sabi ko kasi hindi ko talaga maintindihan at nakikusap ako, tapos sinabi ko hindi sikreto sa buong Pilipinas kung anong mga pinagdadanan namin ni James. Siguro naman, and i address this to the mother, i’m sure ma’am you don’t want your daughter to be a contributing factor to the demise of my marriage. And i’m sure, as a married woman you don’t blame me, and you cannot blame me for wanting to save my marriage. End of story po. Nagpasalamat ako for their time sumakay ako sa aking kotse, papunta na ako sa taping, at 6pm ang dami nang nagtatawagan sa akin. Dahil hindi ko naman po pinagkalat sa publiko ang pangyayari. Yung mga kapitbahay namin, pwede rin naman pong patunayan na hindi ako angsisi-sigaw doon, dahil kung gusto ko talaga magsisi-sigaw Boy, you’ve experienced it kung gaano kalakas ang boses ko. But i was in perfect control. I went to work that day, tuloy-tuloy ang buhay. Unfortunately ang mga kamag-anak niya, nagpa-interview na sa Inquirer at front page kami.

Bakit po ako nagsasalita? Simpleng-simple lang. dinamay niyo ang aking kapatid. Ano ba ang kinalaman ni Noynoy dito? Bakit ang pagkandidatura ni Noy ay gagawin nating issue in somethign that is simply a domestic issue. But now i want to say thank you! Because may ethics committee ang abs-cbn eh, i’m not allowed to talk about my brother on air, because magkakaroon daw tayo ng biases. But beacuse my brother is in the news and i am part of that news story, it gives me the opprotunity to speak about my brother. So Boy pagbibigyan niyo ko, magsasalita po ako tungkol kay Noynoy. No, you cannot stop me Ian okay? Magtutuloy-tuloy ako.

Kasi po ang sinasabi dun, karapat-dapat ba sila sa malacanang? Hindi naman po ako ang binoboto ninyo, si Noynoy. Sino ba si Noynoy? Hindi sikreto sa inyong lahat, nung hindi approved si Noy sa way of life ko, nung kinuwestiyon ni Noy ang moralidad ko, hindi po niya ako kinausap. Hindi ako kinunsinti ng kapatid ko, kung isuma total ninyo, for almost 7 years sum it all up, in totality, Noy and I had a difference. May distance sa aming dalawa kasi nga si Noy ayaw yung pamumuhay ko, in other words, Noy is of good moral character. Hindi niya kinunsinti ang ginawa ko. Pangalawa po, si Noy has been trying to salvage our marriage. In our long conversation nung iniiyakan ko si Noy, ang sinabi po ni Noy sa akin, when you went into that marriage you knew what the responsibilities were. Ang tawag niya sa akin Kristina, o Kristine eto na lang, mas matanda ka mas marami ka nang pinagdaanan sa buhay, emotionally and intellectually you’re more mature. So so much more is expected of you. At ang binanggit ni Noy sa akin, ang dapat mong isipin ngayon si Baby James. Baby James is only two years old, set aside selfish interests, set aside your pride, but try to save this because the one who will suffer the most here is an innocent child. Ngayon kung sasabihin niyo po sa akin na masamang tao pa si Noy, eh hindi ko na po kayo maintindihan dahil tama ang moralidad ng kapatid ko. At tama naman po ang tinuturo niya sa akin, for me to try to save the family. Kung tatanungin niyo po ako, yun nga ho ang mga, i guess the moral standing of Noy is somethign that i can be very proud of. Secondly, bilang kapatid ni Noy, ipintas niyo na lahat nang gusto niyong ipintas sa akin pero hindi ako magnanakaw, hindi ako mamatay tao, hindi po ako sinungaling. So bakti po ako makakasira kay Noy. And now i’m sure you’re going to ask me, what is the state of my marriage.

Boy, i cant lie to all of you and kasi, ico-contextualize ko rin po, Noy told me when i was saying Noy i’m so sorry na yung marriage ko gagamitin pa para batuhin ka, ang sinabi ni Noy sa akin Kristina kalimutan mo yung kampanya! Ang isipin mo yung dalawang anak mo, so ngayon po yun ang iniisip ko yung dalawang anak ko. Most importantly Baby James. And James knows this because this was our conversation. Sinabi ko sa kanya we all know what i went through when i was pregnant with Baby James. Siguro now we can say it, iwas at the hospital then Boy meron akong statement na nagsasabing suko na ako, ayoko na. and my mom called you. Tumawag ang mom ko sayo at nakiusap at sinabing Boy ikaw nang bahala, wag mo nang basahin yang statement ni Krisy. Sabi niya kasi Boy, do this for me. Those were my mom’s words to you. And what did you tell my mom? Sinabi mo yes di ba? And now my mom is not here, i miss her so much. I’ve tried. God knows i’ve tried. And in all fairness kay James, he has also tried. But maybe in my opinion not hard enough. Where do we stand now? nakiusap ako sa kapatid kong si Pinky kung pwedeng dun muna kami. I’m taking my two sons with me not only because i need time and space to think but, we live in one village. On January 25 i turn over our home to the owners. Di ba may bago nang bumili ng bahay namin. Kaya lang boy, hindi mo maaalis sa akin na i tape everyday, natatakot ako na baka naman yung mga anak ko ang balikan. Natatakot ako for the safety of my children. I am not demonizing James. The fact that i have stayed with him for almost 5 years, must prove to all of you mahal ko siya. Kaya lang hindi naman pwedeng ako lang ang nagmamahal. Hindi rin naman pwede na ako lang ang umiintindi. Kumbaga sa basketball, the ball is now in his hands. I can’t forever be the one standing strong, kasi darating din naman yung panahon na mapapagod ako. Yun ang pinaliwanag ko sa mga kapatid ko. Sinabi ko sa kanila, please allow me this. I’m not saying that the marriage is over because in my heart i still want it to work. I want it to work because, number one i will forever be grateful to James dahil pinakasalan niya ako. Na he loved me enough to marry me, but i want it to work because baby James deserves a mother and a father. But he doesn’t deserve this gulo. So kailangan maayos ko, maayos ni James. Ayusin namin ang isa’t isa before we can expect na maging okay kami. Hindi naman siguro na masama yan na gustuhin ko na ayusin niya ang sarili niya. Boy eto na lang, in all this time, kahit na nga sa pag-arte, lahat ng mga kissing scene, lahat ng mga intimate scene, tinanggihan ko dahil ayokong merong ikabahala ang asawa ko. Hindi naman siguro masama na hingin ko rin yun sa kanya. Na wag mo rin naman akong bigyan ng dahilan para magduda. Hindi pwede talaga na in one marriage, it’s only one person working. It takes two di ba for it to works. And again this marriage, it’s not about him and me, i explained to james, all eyes are on us. And i think it’s our responsibility to try our best to make it work, pero kailangan fix yourself and let me fix me. And then later on, im not putting a period, im not saying that this is the end of the road. Im really hoping and praying maayos namin lahat. Pero Boy kailangan ko rin ng space for me kasi bugbog na bugbog na ako, siguro naman hindi ako amg-snap ng ganun kung hindi marami na kaming pinagdaanan. So now im just now i’m saying, as any wife who is watching me now, or any girl in a relationship is watching me now, gusto mo naman ng assurance na mahal ka, nirerespeto ka at hindi ka niloloko. Yun lang.
Boy : where is james in this conversation?
Kris : no we were together, it was my brother-in-law’s lunch. And we had lunch together.
Boy : ito ba’y nauunawaan niya na dapat ayusin niyo ang isa’t isa?
Kris : i think so. Kasi Boy nung umalis naman siya bago magpasko hindi ko siya ginulo. He needed time to think also di ba? Now, we’re going to try di ba? Pero if you’re under one roof and then may ganito, sumbatan nang sumbatan eh. Nakakapagod. Di ba and siguro hindi rin naman masama na hingin ko ngayon na patunayan niya sa akin that this marriage is worth it. Because it can’t always be na it’s just my family telling me Krisy save the marriage, Krisy sayang naman. I told my family eh hindi naman kayo ang married sa kanya eh, so kailangan sa kanya rin naman manggaling na make me feel, make me feel na i’m really your wife, make me feel that you’re a responsible husband, a loving father, and that this marriage has a future.
Boy : krisy after that conversation, sorry to ask this question, hindi ba niya pinaramdam sayo that everything’s alright? Hindi ba niya sinabi na wala talaga ito, hindi ba niya pinarinig sayo that ah wala ka dapat pagdudahan, hindi ba niya sinabi that we are okay we don’t need to separate? Ah hindi ba niya sinabi that ah there should be no questions, because buong-buo, ako’y nandito, i am behind you, i mean ahm, wasn’t there any assurance that
Kris : yes there was boy, but also kasi. Ahm, may mga sinumbat pa sa akin kasi so, ang sinagot ko lang eh dont provoke me further. But i love him, and he knows i still love him. I dont question the fact that he has been so good to Josh, and has loved Josh as his own, and is really loving towards baby james. But now na alam na natin na may ganitong problema, wag naman tayong lahat magbulag-bulagan. Kasi ako pwede kong ipagmalaki that i have never given him any reason whatsoever, to doubt my fidelity. I just want the same thing in return.



Sana ho klaro sa inyong lahat, hindi po ang pamilya ko ang nagpa-interview. Hindi po kami yung nag-text tungkol dito, pamilya po nila. Napilitan po akong sumagot dahil nilapastangan na ang pagkato ko when actually, ako naman po talaga ang biktima. At eto lang ang masasabi ko, dinamay niyo ang kapatid ko. Ang kapatid ko na lang ang talagang natatakbuhan ko for anything and everything. You cannot blame me for wanting to defend Noy, and you cannot blame me for having wanted to defend my marriage.


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